This lecture talks about how to communicate appropriately. Important concepts:
Malu bertanya sesat jalan, malu berkayuh perahu hanyut.
If you're shy to ask you will get lost, if you refuse to paddle your canoe will drift.
狡兔三窟 jiǎotùsānkū
A crafty rabbit has three burrows
Slides: Communication and Culture
The reading is Goddard, Chapter 7: The art of speaking